Love as Presence

Love is not always a feeling we fall into.

Sometimes it is a way of standing still with what is.

Love is the breath we take when we stop trying to fix the moment.

It is the quiet agreement to remain open — even when certainty is absent.

Today, love asks for presence, not performance.

To stay. To soften. To let what is true reveal itself in its own time.

Today on Valentines day… when I think of my growth as Xen, I have leaned on so much support throughout my journey in spiritual and wellness growth. As of lately I have been feeling the pull to share this one specific tool ( a best friend if you may ) …that helps guide me when I need support in surrender.. which to be honest is almost every day. I felt a connection with oracle decks, but if you have used oracle decks-you know- not every deck is meant for us individually. But one deck that is close to my heart is the Rumi Oracle deck by Alana Fairchild. An oracle deck to me is simply just a support tool to help me surrender deeper into what I intuitively already know but sometimes it’s sitting in my subconscious and it needs help getting to my conscious mind.

I connect to a few oracle decks but this one in particular is about the heart. And that is one part of you that can guide you to your most raw and cherished self-your soul.

In essence… the message I interpreted from a card I pulled today was spelling out the simplicity behind love.. as magical and magnetic love can be, it is also grounding and a basic necessity in our own certainty of ourselves. Love is an energy we are and we magnify it out into the world. And it is the most powerful gift we possess because we simply are the gift.